{"id":839,"date":"2021-10-30T14:44:42","date_gmt":"2021-10-30T12:44:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/4women.cz\/?p=839"},"modified":"2021-10-30T14:44:43","modified_gmt":"2021-10-30T12:44:43","slug":"milenky-ci-milence-spolecnost-soudi-byt-v-jejich-pozici-je-vsak-casto-tajna-tragedie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/4women.cz\/?p=839","title":{"rendered":"Milenky \u010di milence spole\u010dnost soud\u00ed. B\u00fdt v jejich pozici je v\u0161ak \u010dasto tajn\u00e1 trag\u00e9die"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nev\u011bra v partnersk\u00e9m vztahu automaticky \u010dte t\u0159i zainteresovan\u00e9. Krom\u011b p\u00e1ru je to tak\u00e9 milenka \u010di milenec, kter\u00fd do t\u00e9to konstrukce vstoupili. Ve spole\u010densk\u00e9m pojet\u00ed jsou \u010dasto opovrhov\u00e1ni nebo tvrd\u011b kritizov\u00e1ni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jak ned\u00e1vno prozradila pro Pravdu psycholo\u017eka Lenka Ru\u0161arov\u00e1 v po\u0159adu Jde o n\u00e1s, jednotlivci v pozici milenek \u010di milenc\u016f maj\u00ed \u010dasto r\u016fzn\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed pozad\u00ed a z vlastn\u00ed praxe si uv\u011bdomuje, \u017ee mnoho jejich osud\u016f jsou jak\u00e9si tajn\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed trag\u00e9die. \u201eNemaj\u00ed to komu \u0159\u00edct, nemaj\u00ed v tom vztahu pomoci. Lid\u00e9 je \u010dasto odsuzuj\u00ed nebo nemaj\u00ed s nimi trp\u011blivost. \u201aU\u017e se s n\u00edm rozejdi, v\u017edy\u0165 vid\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee se k tob\u011b nikdy nenast\u011bhuje, \u017ee svou \u017eenu neodpust\u00ed&#8216;. Takov\u00e9 cosi poslouchaj\u00ed tak\u00e9. Mohou se sv\u011b\u0159it n\u011bkomu jednou dvakr\u00e1t, ale dva, t\u0159i, p\u011bt deset let to u\u017e s nimi nebude nikdo sd\u00edlet. S tr\u00e1pen\u00edm z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed sami,\u201c vysv\u011btlila v po\u0159adu Ru\u0161arov\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u011bkdy se do role milenky ocitne \u017eena, kterou tam p\u0159ivedla \u017eivotn\u00ed situace. \u201eM\u016f\u017ee to b\u00fdt n\u011bjak\u00e1 single m\u00e1ma, ztracen\u00e1 a bez financ\u00ed v \u017eivot\u011b, kter\u00e1 kone\u010dn\u011b najde n\u011bkoho, kdo je jej\u00ed zachr\u00e1nce, kdo se j\u00ed v \u017eivot\u011b v\u011bnuje \u2013 emo\u010dn\u011b, finan\u010dn\u011b, vezme ji pod sv\u00e9 ochrann\u00e9 k\u0159\u00eddlo. Dok\u00e1\u017ee b\u00fdt milenkou, druhou partnerkou roky letouc\u00ed. N\u011bkdy si ani nikoho jin\u00e9ho nenajde a \u017eije v utajen\u00ed, dokonce v hanb\u011b, proto\u017ee nemohou nikomu mluvit o sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b, p\u0159edstavit partnera sv\u00e9 rodin\u011b,\u201c pokra\u010dovala Ru\u0161arov\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/4women.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-10042042-683x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-841\" srcset=\"https:\/\/4women.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-10042042-683x1024.jpeg 683w, https:\/\/4women.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-10042042-200x300.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/4women.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-10042042-768x1152.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/4women.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-10042042-696x1044.jpeg 696w, https:\/\/4women.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-10042042-280x420.jpeg 280w, https:\/\/4women.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-10042042.jpeg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b existuj\u00ed podle n\u00ed i takov\u00e9 typy lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed se zcela vzd\u00e1vaj\u00ed zodpov\u011bdnosti nad t\u00edm, \u017ee vstoupili do n\u011b\u010d\u00edho vztahu. \u201eMaj\u00ed to tak\u0159\u00edkaj\u00edc na h\u00e1ku. Jsou i takov\u00ed. P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f je opravdu hodn\u011b,\u201c komentovala Ru\u0161arov\u00e1 v t\u00e9matu nev\u011bry, kter\u00e1 byla v centru pozornosti po\u0159adu Jde o n\u00e1s p\u0159ed p\u00e1r t\u00fddny. Pokud jste ji n\u00e1hodou nevid\u011bli, doporu\u010dujeme v\u00e1m prohl\u00e9dnout nebo poslechnout si ji jako podcast. Mo\u017en\u00e1 i vy budete p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b m\u00e9n\u011b soudit a sn\u00e1ze zvl\u00e1dat n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 situace, kter\u00e9 partnersk\u00fd \u017eivot m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159in\u00e9st.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nev\u011bra v partnersk\u00e9m vztahu automaticky \u010dte t\u0159i zainteresovan\u00e9. Krom\u011b p\u00e1ru je to tak\u00e9 milenka \u010di milenec, kter\u00fd do t\u00e9to konstrukce vstoupili. Ve spole\u010densk\u00e9m pojet\u00ed jsou \u010dasto opovrhov\u00e1ni nebo tvrd\u011b kritizov\u00e1ni. 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